Going on a first date? Here are 10 major mistakes to avoid if you want a second one:
1. Talking Only About Yourself
- A date should be a conversation, not a monologue. Ask questions, show interest, and listen.
2. Checking Your Phone Constantly
- Scrolling through Instagram or replying to texts mid-date signals boredom and disinterest. Put your phone away!
3. Bringing Up Your Ex (A Lot)
- Mentioning past relationships briefly is okay, but obsessing over your ex? Major red flag.
4. Being Rude to the Waitstaff
- How you treat servers, bartenders, or cashiers says a lot about your character.
5. Over-Sharing Personal Drama
- Save the deep traumas and financial struggles for later. First dates should be light and fun.
6. Not Making an Effort with Hygiene or Appearance
- Showing up looking messy or smelling bad gives off the impression that you don’t care.
7. Getting Too Drunk
- A couple of drinks? Fine. Slurring your words and oversharing? Not so much.
8. Being Late Without a Good Reason
- A few minutes is understandable, but making someone wait 30+ minutes without a heads-up? Bad look.
9. Talking About Marriage and Kids Too Soon
- Unless you both agree to discuss serious future plans, keep things relaxed and casual at first.
10. Not Showing Appreciation
- If your date paid for dinner, drove to meet you, or put effort into planning—acknowledge it! A simple “thank you” goes a long way.
Avoid these, and you’ll increase your chances of having a great first date! Anything specific you’re nervous about?
